I'm a former SS (600 Ninja) rider that returned after awhile. Still got 3 kids at home so, budget still is a major concern.
The 1200 is a joy to ride. I'm 5'8" and a "stocky" 200 lbs. Stage 1 upgrades with SE II slip ons. She pulls just fine. Not looking for more power or afraid it has too much. It's just right, it does the job well solo.
I wouldn't take the wife anywhere other than the pub on the back. My daughters don't mind a 45 minute trip for ice cream but, when they get home, they don't bug me for another ride for quite awhile.
Lastly, I ride with others and as the only Sporty, I feel bad they have to stop for me to fuel up.
Here is a two up with my bro in law. Fun but, not pretty.