I am surprised that the tensioners weren't replaced by a dealer when the BB kit was done. The HD BB "kits" usually include pistons, cylinders, SE203 cams and a stronger clutch spring. Any knowledgeable tech would have at least opened the cam chest to inspect the tensioners as it is common knowledge that the early OEM tensioners have a history of early and catastrophic failure; every HD tech knows this. A moot point now for the OP who is trying to figure out where to go from here.
Just a couple of thoughts for Zelda that are JMHO.
1. I would be suspect of any tech that suggested the trans needed anything. The trans has not been affected by the failure of cam chest components and any discussion or trans repair or replacement should be eliminated from the conversation should Zelda continue to work with this tech. Additionally, if the tech will not agree to follow Zelda's instructions on the repair, Zelda should move on and find another tech.
I always encourage others to DIY these projects; this work is just not that challenging; not rocket science. All that is required is the will to get it done, the service manual, basic hand tools and patience. There are a couple of "specialty" tools but there are work arounds for all of them that are inexpensive. There is also a lot of help from forum members that have "been there, done that" to help guide the first time DIYer through the process. This project requires rebuilding the cam chest assuming that the top end is in good condition and based on "The bike doesn't smoke, has normal oil pressure and normal throttle power" , it is likely that it is.
2. If I were in Zelda's situation, based on the information in the OP, I would wait for the results from Blackstone. Blackstone's analysis will include their comments about the overall condition of the motor. I have attached a copy of their analysis of my all bore 107" motor in my '02 FLHT after a bad experience with a set of Axtell cylinders that were out of round and severely scuffed up the pistons to the point that the cylinders had to bored .010" OS to fit new pistons. I was concerned about rings micro welding and debris from the scuffed pistons floating in the oil so I sent a sample to Blackstone. The analysis showed me that my concern was unnecessary. Note the comments section of the report.
It is too late for a compression and leak down test; would have been nice to know the condition of the top end before tearing down the cam chest but as previously stated, the top end may be just fine. After rebuilding the cam chest, a compression and leak dow test will confirm whether or not the top end, including the heads need attention .
3. If Blackstone confirms that metal floating in the oil is not an issue, Zelda or the tech can rebuild the cam chest, i.e., new inner and outer cam bearings, cams, new set of CYCO tensioners (no OEM please), retain the drive sprockets and chains, replace the oil pump with OEM or aftermarket higher capacity Daytona pump which is cheaper than OEM. Of course new o-rings and gaskets. This would be good time to upgrade the cams with a set of S&S 509 cams.
If the bike is carbed, re-jetting should be part of the plan and if EFI a re-tune will be required to optimize performance.
4. If Blackstone analysis comments indicate metal is floating in the oil (I doubt it) all of the above still applies along with the extra steps the Frenchie has outlined in his posts.
BTW, Zelda refers to an "old bike" I just parted ways with my '02 FLHT a few months ago. Having three bikes and not riding as much as I used to, it was time to let one go. Parting ways with that bike was like putting down a dog that had been by my side for fifteen years. I just don't have any interest in the new M8 bikes.
Good luck to Zelda and I look forward to following progress and assisting in any way that I can.