Thinking of talking to the Redhead about selling the Bob and buying a Heritage tonight, What do you all think?:s
Jack why don't you just buy it and then try this theory out. " It's easier to ask for forgiveness than it is permission."
Thinking of talking to the Redhead about selling the Bob and buying a Heritage tonight, What do you all think?:s
My hubby only blames me for not allowing him to do something when he doesn't want to do it.![]()
Jack why don't you just buy it and then try this theory out. " It's easier to ask for forgiveness than it is permission."
Mat interesting post. I have seen some men who seem to be a little over the top when it comes to having to check in or ask permission. As for me my wife has never made me feel that I have to ask to go somewhere or that I have to check in. That being said there is something in any relationship called respect. If you like it or not your wife/girlfriend/significant other worries about you and deserves to be kept in the loop. This also goes the other way, out of respect my wife doesn't make plans that involve us without checking to see if it interfers with something I have going on. When we treat each other as equal partners we respect the other and ask the same in return. Trust goes a long way in making any relationship last, respect is the glue that keeps it together.
I don't ask my bride permission to do something unless the end result will effect both of us. For example, if I am buying something with "my" $$$, I just do it. However, that being said, I have learned many, many years ago two things:1)never paint anything without first consulting the bride for her opinion on what color to use, and 2) if momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.....
I got it made, I asked my wife, and she gave me permission to be the boss.![]()