hello eveyone!-I have a 09 deluxe which I remove the buddy seat pillon since I ride 100% solo, but my wife wants to ride sometimes-you know what I mean!?. I going to get a detachable sissy bar. is it hard to install the hardware docking kit? HD whants $200 to put the sideplate,pillon,backrest, sissy bar and hardware together-ooch!:newsmile093