I also have a question for TQ. Are you sure kit #29999-97B Alternator Upgrade doesn't already include a stator? Everything I read implies it does. Man, that is a lot of money for just a rotor & gasket.
Tell me about it!! But that is all you get - rotor and Primary gasket. See pix here:
29999-97B, 45-Amp Charging System for Electra Glide® Models, Standard equipment on H-D&re
You can beat the price I paid (list!!) if you shop online. But I did not have time. This sort of problem (failure) is one that you need to go get the parts right now. C'est la vie.
TQ